feel so affected after what my mom has told me.. her eyes brimmed with tears as she was telling me.. my cousin who is married less than a year may be getting a divorce.. shocking news..
how can a couple who is together for 7 years, just married to each other.. seems so blissful then.. turn out to be like that?
is living together so different from being together?
he said he cant stand her being so inconsiderate.. not able to help out the housework..
she said he is having an affair outside..
who should we believe?
perhaps both parties are at fault..
so will the relationship end just like that??
at this moment.. i cant help but think that everything could change after marriage.. marriage is not the ultimate goal of a relationship.. not like what fairytales have shown us.. princess n prince in their beautiful white gown and charming suit waving good byes to people wishing well for them and the show will end with 'and they live happily ever after..' after all its just to deceive kids..
i began to think that.. maybe its just good just to be with each other and not get married.. stay simple.. minimize the hassle.. i don't know.. but after witnessing so many divorces in my family.. in fact all of the ladies in my maternal side are divorcees.. and even being together for 7 years could lead to a divorce less than 1 year after married..
i lose faith in marriages..
